Holding on to myself.

Changes changes changes everywhere.

This is me, the married me. I never wanted to change but dont know in just a span of about 6 months the things around me changed so much i didnt realize when did i change soo much. Thank to few old buddies who noticed it and told me "hey i changed so much after marriage". Well right, change is the way of life but when you are already perfect and everyone already loves you the way you are then why this change. I love myslef the way i am and i dont want to change at all. No matter what? i keep trying not to change even a bit. Yeah i know i am married and change is a need but what if things getting ruined because of this change? its better to holdon to yourself and let the things adapt you. Blogging may b a way i can be myself. i hope i do it and be happy always. 

First blog after wedding.

First things first. well this is my first blog after my marital status changed from being single to married. To all the single (unmarried) friends of mine who wished me on my wedding, Thank you all. But this post is specially for the ones who are married and inspite of being married dared to congratulate me. Now you must be wondering what is so daring about about it? U all AH's married friends of mine when i said i am gettting married instead of wishing me luck or mourning or even warning me about this horror thing called marriage, u guys celebrated my wedding and on that congratulated me.

No one of you warned me about the after life of wedding. I hate u guys. These changes in life are the same for even guys and gals. Both has to start adapting to the new life, new responsibility, new changes bla bla bla. Wedding was a nightmare to me and yeah it turned out to be true infact more horror than i thought.

Maine tum logon ka kya bigada tha ki tum logon ne mujhse badla liya. Pehle hi thoda agha kar dete toh me kuch aur saal i would have enjoyed my independence. Khair ab what can be done i have to learn being married and try accepting the changes. I first thought its only with me but when i called a friend of mine and explained she said its the same with me and every1 else also. then the hell did no1 warned me b4.

P.S. so next time u hear anyone getting married with them luck its more important. congratulating is of no use.